Asexual dating: Aromantic asexual relationships - how is the experience of being an aromantic asexual?

Aromantic asexual is not "only like, not love", but "like and love", but not in the form of romantic love, only family affection , friendship and other forms of love feelings. There are differences between aromantic asexual and love incompetence. "Love incompetence" generally has a need for romantic love but no ability to love and no desire to establish a love relationship.
Whether it is asexual or aromantic, all should have innate and acquired factors, personally, I should be innate. Just as many gay people know that they like same-sex in their childhood, I also knew from a very young age that I was not interested in the conventional way of life like falling in love, getting married and having children.
From a young age, I understood love as a deep friendship or a strong appreciation. I cannot understand love at first sight, because there is no sexual impulse, nor can I understand the long-term love or change friends to lover, because friendship is the most intimate and comfortable relationship in my opinion. Why want to become a love relationship? How greasy.
As an aronmantic ace I have several close friends who are regarded as confidants, aspirations and personality are quite compatible. Traveling together, watching movies, candlelight dinner, bedtime night talk, and everything is very happy. Even if you can only meet once or twice a year in a foreign country, there is no alienation. I feel that our friendship is stronger and deeper than many love relationships, and I don’t want to “upgrade” to love.